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A Renaissance Wedding:
Royalty and Romance!

 

Would you love to be Lord and Lady for a day?  Do you love pageantry?  Do you want a unique and special wedding ceremony that everyone will always remember?  A Renaissance wedding may be just what you are looking for!

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Here are some ideas for your Renaissance wedding:

The Ceremony:

HandfastingHand-fasting is a ceremony in which the bride and groom's hands are tied together with ribbons or decorative cord, symbolizing that their lives are joined together for eternity.

Scrolls- Have your officiant and any readers read from a scroll.

Reading- a love sonnet by Shakespeare. 

Sword Presentation- The groom can present his bride with a sword, symbolizing his strength of commitment.

Cup of Blessing- The bride can present her groom with a goblet of water or wine, representing her love.

Bell- A bell can be rung to forever be a reminder of your vows.

Pronouncement- Instead of Mr. and Mrs., have the minister pronounce you as Lord and Lady, Prince and Princess, or King and Queen!!

Throwing Rice: Throwing rice at the wedding couple dates back to Renaissance times, and symbolizes fertility and luck. 

Wedding Site:
A backyard wedding ceremony is perfect, as m
ost Renaissance weddings were held outside, often at the bride's parents' house.  They were also held in chapels, or at the church door.  Look for a church or other venue with lots of stonework, stained glass, or Tudor wooden accents. 

Décor- Candles, candles, candles!  Use large, chunky  wooden candleholders or black wrought-iron candleabras to add atmosphere to a church or other indoor site. (For outdoors, use candles in lanterns or glass enclosures to keep the wind from blowing them out.)  Decorate with ivy, banners of family crests, large baskets of flowers, and flowered garlands on wooden or iron poles.

Attire:
Have your bridal party dress in Renaissance attire, and as an option, invite your guests to dress in Renaissance attire, too!  Or provide costumes for your guests to dress in for photo shoots at your reception. Renaissance clothing can be found online or rented from costume shops. 

Bride's Gown and Flowers- Blue was a symbol of purity, and Renaissance brides either wore blue or carried something blue.  Choose a fabric such as velvet, brocade, or silk, in a rich color. You can wear your hair loose, long, and flowing with a wreath of ivy or flowers and ribbons. The bride's bouquet should be large, overflowing, and hand-tied, with a rustic, natural look.

Attire for Women-  Nobility dressed in elaborate and brightly colored gowns, in silks, brocades, and tapestry. Dresses were floor-length, long-sleeved, often with an over-skirt, and usually tastefully low-cut.   Renaissance ladies adorned themselves in jewelry, furs, and elaborate belts.

Attire for Men- Tights, knee length breeches, pirate shirts, doublets, cloaks, boots, and swords! 

Music:
Look for minstrels to lead your  processional, to play during the ceremony, and to lead the recessional.  For added pageantry, you could have members of the wedding party carry your family's coat of arms banners.

Reception:
Menu- Feasting was a big part of any Renaissance celebration. Popular meats were game, such as goose, venison, quail or roast chickens, meat pies, plus serve cheeses, nuts, fruits, herbed and hearty vegetables, rice, tarts and custards.  Celebrate with ale, beer, wine and fruit juices.

Garter- The throwing of the garter dates back to the Renaissance era. The belief was that by capturing the garter and giving it to his love, a man would receive faithfulness.

Tiered Cakes- The tiered or layered wedding cake also dates back to Renaissance times. Ask your guests to bring small (pancake sized) cakes to stack on top of each other. Tradition says that if the couple kisses over the top of the cakes without knocking them down, they will have good luck!

Entertainment- court jester, juggler, or minstrel.

Invitations:
Set the tone for your Renaissance wedding with your wedding invitations.  Choose ivory or beige parchment paper, with the invitation in black calligraphy or a calligraphy-type font. Roll invitations like a scroll and tie with a ribbon (mail in a tube), or fold them into thirds and seal with hot wax.
 Use Olde English wording ie:

Hear Ye! Hear Ye!
The honour of thy presence is hereby requested
at the marriage ceremony of Lady Ann Huntington
and Sir Chad Wilson  
on Saturday, the twenty-seventh of June
in the year of our Lord two thousand and nine.

The ceremony will commence
at half past the sixth hour
at the Huntington's Lair
33 Lovely Road
in the shire of Hamden, Connecticut.  

Renaissance style attire is recommended but not required.
Feasting and merriment will follow the ceremony.

You are invited to participate in the
Renaissance Wedding Cake Tradition
whereby guests bring small cakes to stack
on top of each other.
If the couple can kiss over the top
without knocking them down, they will have good luck!

 


We love to do Renaissance weddings! 
Contact us now for availability for your date and time, and let us help you create the Renaissance wedding of your dreams!

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