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A few special options can personalize your wedding, and make it extraordinary.  Symbolic acts are very moving and can add much to a wedding.  And visuals make wonderful photos!

 
We have a great selection of sample ceremonies and many options and ideas to choose from when you book with us.  You can mix and match and make your own ceremony.  Contact us now to start creating the CT wedding ceremony of your dreams!


Pastors Bob and Barbara, wedding officiants
Email: weddingpastors@aol.com
Phone: (203) 503- 4102

Bekkah and Matan- Blended Family Ceremony

"I hope couples that are planning on a ceremony find you both like I did - because I really believe you both were meant to be there on our day. Again thank you so much!!!!!!"~ Bekkah and Matan

Special Options that Can Be Included:
Blended Family Weddings   

     It's beautiful when children are included in the ceremony.  Some couples will give their children a  medallion, bracelet, locket, or ring, or say special words to them. Many options can include children, such as the sand or water ceremonies, the hand-fasting, or the lasso ceremony.

Parental Honoring
     Words of love and thanks to the parents, or a Mothers' Rose Presentation.  Very touching.
Blessing by the Mothers/Parents
     A parent may read a blessing, or the minister may say a blessing with the parents in agreement.
Honoring a Loved One Who Has Passed Away
     Remember a loved one with a simple moment of silence, a prayer, a candle-lighting, a poem, a
     rose, or a special song, or put a photo of them on the altar.
Love Letters or Love Songs
     You can write declarations of love to read to each other during your ceremony. Say how you feel
     about each other.  Or read the lyrics of your favorite love songs, or sing to each other.  Extremely
     romantic and moving!
Community Vow of Support
     The officiant asks the guests to love and support the couple, and they answer "We will."
Christian Communion Ceremony

Symbolic Acts and Ethnic Traditions:
Unity Candle Ceremony , Sand Ceremony, or Water CeremonyWine Ceremony or Loving Cup Ceremony, Veil and Lasso Ceremony or Lazo Ceremony
      These ceremonies all symbolize the union of the bride and groom, or the blending of families.
Red Rose Exchange
     The first gift to each other.  A sweet, romantic option.
Hand Blessing Ceremony
     A popular option.
Hand Fasting Ceremony
     A Celtic wedding tradition, symbolizing the wedding union.
Coin Ceremony
     A Latin wedding custom symbolizing provision.
Flower Ceremony or Hawaiian Lei Ceremony

     Flowers symbolize love.  See our suggestions for including them in your ceremony.

Blessing Jar or Pebbles Ceremony
     Each guest writes a blessing or takes a pebble or a glass stone and says a blessing over it, then
     places it in a container.
Candlelight Ceremony
     The ceremony site may be lit with candles (sooo romantic!), guests may hold candles providing light as the bride enters, or guests may participate in a unity candle ceremony.
Celtic Oathing Stone
     The couple puts their hands on a stone during their vows to "set them in stone."
Love Bell
     A bell is rung on the wedding day, then placed in a special place in the couples' home. If they
     start to argue, one of them can ring the bell, reminding them both of the happiness of their love.
Honey Ceremony
     The bride and groom offer each other honey to taste, as a symbol of the sweetness of their love.
Bread, Salt and Wine
    
Polish Custom. Represents the good wishes of the bride and groom's parents.
Ring Warming/Ring Blessings
    
The wedding rings are passed among the guests or family members and held in their hands to
    
"warm" them, and to silently bless the rings and the couple. A lovely touch for a small, intimate
     ceremony.   

Closing Rituals:
Breaking of the Glass Ceremony
     A Jewish wedding tradition.
Jumping the Broom Ceremony
     An African-American wedding custom symbolizing new life together.
Dove Release
Balloon Release
Fireworks
"Showering"
     As the married couple leaves the ceremony, the guests shower them with good wishes, using
     flower petals, confetti, birdseed, rice, or bubbles.

Your Ideas! 
    
If you have an idea you'd like to incorporate into your ceremony, just let us know!