Wedding Ministers, Connecticut

Unity Candle Ceremony
and personalized unity candle sets and holders


The Wedding Shop 

Personalized Unity Candle Sets:
customize with your names & wedding date

Personalized Everlasting Love Unity Set

Ribbon heart design, SwarovskiŽ crystals,
Engravable candle holder

Engraving Suggestions:
"Today I Marry My Best Friend"
"Everlasting Love"
"Two Lives, Two Hearts, United Together as One"
"Two Lives Become One"
"Two Hearts, One Love"
"Two Hearts, Joined in Love"
"Love Is Patient, Love is Kind"
"On This Day I Thee Wed"
"And Two Shall Become One"

Personalized Tara Unity Candle Set

3 pc Unity Candle Holder

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We can perform a traditional unity candle ceremony- the most popular option.  However, we don't recommend an outdoor candle ceremony as the candles either will not light or will not stay lit.  Unity ceremonies that work well outdoors include sand, wine, water, hand-fasting and flower ceremonies.

We can provide a silver heart unity stand for your use, if you ask us to do a unity candle ceremony.  We can also provide candles, or you can provide your own.  To order personalized candles, see left side panel.

"Two lives, two hearts formed together in friendship united forever in love."

Unity Candle Ceremony #1:  (A great way to include the Moms)

Before they are seated at the start of the ceremony, a member from each family (usually the mothers of the bride and groom) each light a taper candle, signifying their love for the bride and groom. These candles are on either side of the unity pillar candle.
 
After the exchange of vows, the bride and groom each take their family's taper candle and light the unity pillar candle together, symbolizing the united love of the couple, and unifying the families as one.

Minister: (Groom's Name) and (Bride's Name),
as you take the flames from two separate candles, representing your families and your individual lives, know that the center candle you are about to light is a candle of marriage, symbolizing the light of your love. It is a candle of unity because both must come together, giving a spark of themselves, to create the new light. And it is a candle of commitment because it takes two people working together to keep it aflame.

You may now light the candle.

May you love deeply and laugh much.
May you see many sunrises, and enjoy many rains.
May you dream together, and value the little moments.
May you continually discover each other,
and may your love grow,
as you share and listen carefully, open heart to open heart.

 

Unity Candle Ceremony #2: (unity of bride and groom)
The bride and groom each light their own candles, then together light a center unity candle.

Minister: (Groom's Name) and (Bride's Name), please light your candles.

The candles you hold represent your individual lives- all you are and have been up to this moment;
as you light the third candle and put out your own,
your two hearts, bonded by love, will become one.

Please light the center candle, to symbolize the union of your lives.

As you have lit this candle today, may it be a symbol of your commitment to each other, and may the flame of love in your hearts continue to burn brightly always.  
 

Christian Unity Candle Ceremony:

Minister: (Groom's Name) and (Bride's Name), you have exchanged vows declaring your desire to be united as one, in a Christ-honoring marriage. As you enter marriage, may the light of His presence in your lives be seen as a light in the darkness. 

As you now take the flames from two separate candles, representing your separate lives, and blend them into the one center candle, representing the unity of your live together, may
God make of your hands one hand...of your hearts one heart...and of your lives one life. 
 
 May your union be forever blessed.

 

Unity Candle Ceremony Variation: (includes all your guests)
All guests are given a candle.  The first candle is lit.  Guests pass the flame until all are lit, and then the bride and groom together light their unity candle.  This variation symbolizes the unity of friends and family supporting the couple's marriage.

Monogrammed
Black & White Candles

Personalized
Black & White Polka Dot Candles

Personalized
White Flower Garden Candles

 

Blue Polka Dot Candles

Blue Flower Garden Candles

 

Green Polka Dot Candles

Green Flower Garden Candles

 

Ivory & Chocolate Candles

Ivory Flower Garden Candles

 

Pink Polka dot Candles

Pink Flower Garden Candles

 

Personalized Unity Candle

Candle Holder with Tapers

 

ivory with gold or white with silver
"A Circle of Love Makes Us One"
"This Day I Shall Marry"
"Two Shall Become One"

brass holder with ivory tapers
silver holder with white tapers
(center pillar candle sold separately)

 


We have a fantastic selection of sample ceremonies, ceremony ideas and options, and much more to choose from when you book with us.  Contact us now to start creating the CT wedding ceremony of your dreams!

 


Pastors Bob and Barbara, wedding officiants
Email: weddingpastors@aol.com
Phone: (203) 503- 4102